As of 4:00 this afternoon I am the (temporarily) single parent to only one sweet baby girl who mostly sleeps, eats, and poops. Maybe we should talk about how my husband is GREAT and took the Fab Five to the farm overnight?!
But instead, I think we’ll talk about you. And me. All moms, really, (parents! really!) because Moms, we are great! It’s not the extraordinary. It’s not the beautifully coordinated Pinterest parties we throw. It’s not the spotless house or the perfectly groomed children or the freshly ironed Sunday clothes.
You know what’s great? Knowing when a nap trumps all.
What else is great? Skipping the cake and rolling with her birthday request.
Donuts and bacon for the win! (Seriously now, her expression = GREAT!)
It’s the every day. It’s singing “Jesus Loves Me” while rocking her at 1:30 in the morning. It’s cleaning his vomit (or her fingernail polish) out of the carpet. It’s smiling and averting your eyes from your favorite show to watch her new trick.
Sometimes it’s putting one foot in front of the other and simply doing what needs to be done. (Bonus points if you do it with a smile.) If you remember, at the end of this post, I wrote “Dear July, Please play nice. Mama’s tired.” There was good reason for that.
After our last two babies came about 20 days early, we thought we better prepare for the same this go around. That meant being ready for baby at the end of June/first week of July. Well, you know how my June went. Huge sigh of relief to get through it without adding baby to the mix, then the first week of July we had a swim meet on the 1st, moved my parents out of my hometown (where they lived for the last 35 years) on the 2nd, and swim finals on the 3rd. Whew! We made it! That night I told my husband to go ahead and pack just in case since I was okay with having the baby at any time now. (Like I have control over such things…)
We woke late on July 4th with no plans. Bliss! Until… a couple of our children started scratching. Their heads.
I cried. A quick peek confirmed that at least one child had headlice, and I could go into labor at any time!!! Not great.
Deep breath. Wipe the tears. (Both mine and my panicked tween’s, who, by the way, never had so much as a nit, much to her relief!) Add Joy and citrus to the diffuser (Mama needs it!). Scream for help on Skype. (Thank you, Smockity!) Send hubby to town for supplies. Comb and pick and smother and spray and comb and pick and smother and spray… and pray that this baby would not come. Not right now.
Worst nightmare? No. Of course not. Nurst Wightmare? You betcha! Our first experience with head lice? Not great. Getting through it together without too many tears and without going into labor? ;) That’s the stuff that Great is made of.
Speaking of going into labor… I eluded to this near disaster in my Birth Story. About an hour before my first real contractions, Miss 2 thought it would be fun to climb the big kids’ bikes. Not so fun when she came tumbling down into some wooden shelves, mouth first. Blood everywhere. One top front tooth nearly knocked out, pushed back to a gruesome 90° angle. Screaming. Company for supper. It was a mess.
I called the dentist. He said there was nothing they could do unless the tooth was “flapping in the wind” and then they’d take it out. It took a couple of hours to calm her, stop the bleeding, assess the situation, decide NOT to go to the emergency room, find something she could eat without any chewing (smoothies for the win!), feed our guests, calm her again, and get my own supper. That’s when I told my husband I was in labor.
These moments. This one foot in front of the other. Getting through. That is what makes me great.
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We were given all 8 varieties of Post Great Grains to try out. Timing is everything, and our cereal arrived about a week before the baby made her appearance. Having cereal handy in these early weeks has been so fantastic, and my kids don’t seem to know that this cereal is full of much more than sugar and frosting.
My favorite? Oh, that’s a tough one. I love a nutty crunch, so the Crunchy Pecans variety was definitely a hit, but I really enjoy the Cranberry Almond Crunch, too. (Truth? I haven’t tried any that I don’t like.)
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Okay, readers. I spend many hours a day sitting in my recliner or on my bed nursing a wee one. Entertain me. Inspire me. Humor me. What makes you great?